BE INDEPENDENT

Wife   : OMG! Look.. Cantiknya shawl ni

Hubby: Berapa harga? ( without looking  ok!!)

Wife   : RM1xxx

Hubby: Tak payah la.. jom..I lapar la

Terus keluar tarik tangan isteri and the wife terkulat- kulat je jalan sambil sempat jeling shawl yang dia dah lama eye-ing.

Sound bad? No actually. Infact the couple came in and dress up in a proper manner. Ralph Lauren t-shirt, kasut Gucci and even the wife herself carry a casual Louis Vuitton bag. As what i observe ladies nowdays (not saying I'm judging but most of them are) berangan nak dapat husband berduit, then tak payah kerja, duduk rumah, jaga rumah, jaga anak.. and cukup time husband belanja.

SALAH!!!

Jangan sesekali berangan macam tu ya kaum wanita. To me, its good if your husband afford to support everything tapi sangatlah beza bila dapat pegang duit sendiri. No matter how kaya your husband, you still have to earn bit for yourself. At least if kita suka sesuatu benda, tak payahlah nak mengharap husband beli 24jam, bila tak dapat, terkulat- kulat biji mata.

Hidup berumah tangga, semua orang mengharapkan kekal hingga ke mati. Itu konsep berumahtangga 50 tahun dulu perhaps? Nowadays, I advice womens out there supaya bekerja sendiri tak kira kerja in office or even home business as long ada saving sikit for future. Dan senyap- senyap la ada saving sendiri untuk kemudahan di kemudian hari. Mana tau kalau panas tak sampai ke petang sekurangnya takde la kita ternganga ditinggalkan sehelai sepinggang.

Some of you might not agree but percayalah. There's thousand of advantages if you know how to stand on your own. Alhamdulillah, I'm working and in the same time I do have side income for saving. There's certain things that my husband would buy for me and some of it I do bought with my own money. That's the fact and I'm proud of it. I don't care people say I might be stupid by not taking advantage so-call but I do believe, if anything happen in future I know how to handle and stand on my own. I proud with what I own (I mean like handbags even clothes or shoes- personal things from normal to luxury brand), all I earn it with my own effort. I should be grateful enough because husband bought a comfortable house for our family.

Back to the topics, think about it. Trust me, you will agree with me.